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Nagpur psychiatrist Dr Neha Bhave Salankar decodes recipe for being happy couple
Dr Neha Bhave Salankar is an MD in Psychiatry, who works as a Consultant Psychiatrist in Nagpur
Many of us have experienced the highs of young love, fights, painful separations and the gooey lovey dovey melting of insides. Over time, patterns emerge in our own relationship and some couples seem to stand stronger than others. So what is it that makes some couples have ?fevicol ka jod while others just whither away like cottonwood seeds
Good communication skills go a long way in maintaining relationships. Open, honest talks about issues that are troubling either or both partners help resolve issues much faster than sulking or passing hints and expecting the other person to ?understand.
Transparency and honesty are essential, as without these you cannot trust your partner. If you remain second guessing everything your partner says or does, there will be no peace of mind and the relationship is destined to be doomed. No relationship can be balanced without empathy. Unless you cannot feel the pain or happiness that affects your partner, you cannot share their sorrows or joy. Empathy helps you connect with others on a deeper emotional level helping form long lasting bonds.
Learn to appreciate the pains and efforts taken by your partner and acknowledge them. A kind word, a small gesture like a hug or a smile reinforces the desire to be better and do more. Don’t keep digging up past misdeeds and throw them in each other’s face during arguments.
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Lastly, as my professor says, a non-judgmental acceptance of your partner is the utopia of any relationship. Although very difficult to achieve in entirety, any effort towards the same leads to happiness in the relationship more than anything else. Like everything else in life, your partner will come as a package with things that you like as well as dislike.
Understanding that all of us have flaws and no ones perfect while working around each other’s quirks or even laughing at them creates maximum harmony in a relationship. People are not like puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Our personalities are so multifaceted that there is bound to be friction over some issues or the other. Relationships are all about give and take. You win some; you lose some. Relationships sustain only if you can do both with a smile.
Remember, a great relationship isn’t when a perfect couple comes together, but when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
The ideas and information expressed are solely by the columnist and not by Nation Next.
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Nagpur doctor invited as key speaker at Joint American Homeopathic Conference 2023 in US
Dr Kavita Chandak
Homeopath from Nagpur Dr Kavita Chandak, who has two Golden Book Of World Records for treating kidney disorders and success in a case of Mucor mycosis in her name, has been invited as a keynote speaker at the Joint American Homeopathic Conference 2023 based on the theme, Homeopathy in 21st century at San Antonio in United States.
In society, we get to see many cases where child born with mental or physical defects such as congenital heart defects, mental retardation, Down’s syndrome, Cleft palate, ADHD, Autism etc. though born from healthy parents. What could be the reason behind it?
Could homeopathy offer something for it? Dr. Chandak will deliver a 90 minutes session on March 26 on ‘Advancing a Healthier Generation with Homeopathy: Preventative measures for healthy birth and treatment approaches for unimpaired growth.’
She will throw light on the pre-birth causes in mother disturbing the birth of healthy baby creating mental and physical defects as well the preventive measures for initiating the creation of strong generation with Homeopathy.
Dr Chandak is an international trainer and speaker who has specialised in autism, psychiatric and behavioural disorders, kidney diseases and cancer. She has authored eight books and 294 health articles. She will be a keynote speaker in upcoming international congresses of Russia, Romania, Greece and the World Congress of Homeopathy, Colombia.
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Dipen Agrawal
Dr Dipen Agrawal, President – Chamber of Associations of Maharashtra Industry & Trade (CAMIT) has been nominated as member in Central Goods & Service Tax Grievance Redressal Committee (CGST GRC) Nagpur Zone.
At the outset Dr Dipen Agrawal while thanking Ramchandra Sankhla Chief Commissioner CGST, Vijay Rishi Commissioner Nagpur – 1 and Shri Abhay Kumar Commissioner Nagpur – 2 for giving representation to CAMIT in the recently reconstituted GRC for Nagpur Zone, said, the GRC has enabled revenue officers to have first-hand feedback on various policy initiatives undertaken by government. It also helped in ironing out the difficulties faced by trade in implementing provisions of GST, and to make GST a Grievance-free System of Taxation.
Dr Dipen Agrawal has appealed to fellow traders to forward/share their issues on [email protected] so as to get them addressed in the GRC Meetings. Active and quality participation of trade and professional associations in the committee will achieve the goals of resolving all grievances and issues faced by the tax collectors i.e. traders.
GRC is a platform to voice their grievances including procedural difficulties and IT related issues pertaining to GST and redressal at local level added Dr Agrawal.
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Ahead of the C20 meet, Nagpur Municipal Corporation (NMC) has spent a staggering ₹20 crore on the lighting of trees on both sides of the roads of airport road, Wardha Road, Walker’s Street, airport road to RBI Square to name a few.
Also, over one lakh nails were hammered on 3000 trees for the installation of lights leaving several activists and residents irked. The C20 meet is scheduled for March 20 and 21 where hundreds of participants from 20 countries would be arriving in the city for a summit.
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Nagpur doctor invited as key speaker at Joint American Homeopathic Conference 2023 in US
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